You set a date and the person fails to show up, it feels horrible…….rejected…….let down! Failed dates are a common phenomenon, so don’t feel dejected or rejected but find out the reason. Majorly, guys are popular to reach late or fail to show up for their date but when TS you are interested in does not show up at a mutually agreed location feels bad.
It doesn’t matter if you booked a trans escort for a date or an independent TS girlfriend. Standing at the location makes you wonder why she abandoned you before you got an opportunity to get friendly. A transsexual woman standing a guy on a date makes you think about her behavior and man’s perspective on dating them.
Her failure to inform her absence shows irresponsibility
Ignoring to notify your intended date about your situation of not meeting him at the place and time agreed is most frustrating. It is mental torture for the intended date desperately waiting to meet you. It doesn’t matter if you cancel the date but ensure to notify him. You can always reschedule time and day!
Informing the guy is not just common courtesy but reveals your responsibility towards your own actions. Irresponsibility and lack of courtesy display your inconsideration for his feelings. He looks bad and may not ask you for a date again. Your actions can slap you, which you will never like even a bit!
What does irresponsible behavior speak about her?
Irresponsible behavior speaks a lot about you to the guy you desire to date. It demonstrates she must not be trusted. She may have her honest or dishonest reasons but at the moment it seems inconsiderate.
It is crucial that as guys are educated on how to treat a TS girlfriend, a transsexual woman needs to be taught to respect guys and their feelings during their transition period. She needs to be liable for her actions including date cancellations.
There is a myth among the TS community that every guy is interested in them for sexual purposes. Several males are genuinely interested in dating her.
Man’s perspective of being stood up on a date
- Man becomes cynical and sour towards dating.
- He starts criticizing women for such improper behavior.
- He even concludes that searching for an elusive girlfriend is a waste of time.
- He can wind up seeing women negatively, just like girls who are stood up by guys end up.
- Overtime after being stood up on several dates, he learns to stay away from female companionship.
Make sure that being stood up on dates doesn’t burn or damage your dating spirit. Lay down rules associated with dating. The first rule is not to wait for more than one hour for your date to arrive. Girls need to inform the intended date about the cancellation as soon as possible. Even, men have the same obligation if he is unable to show up on time.
Be honest about your date cancellation reasons and reveal your responsible and considerate behavior!